It is funny you asked this question, last session I was asked to describe my different modes that I operate in. I listed a few and gave key characteristic that I display in each. When I said that it... My T asked what about yourself as a wife what mode are you in when you are in this role?

I don't have an image of myself in this role. I also realize I really don't have a good idea for what I should be like in this role.

I'd have to say..No, I would not want to be married to me.