I don't know if I'd marry myself or not. I guess in a sense, like you pointed out, Defective, we are married to ourselves; I guess it would take me looking at both my good and bad points, not just ways I "drive myself crazy".
My husband likes being married to me. I find ways to surprise and amuse him and I like being surprised and amused also. He values my opinions and common sense and I like them also. I don't have any worries about not being able to make up my mind about something and I feel I have good judgement. I'm helpful in a myriad of ways too, can notice little things that can make a big difference and just do them "naturally" and without a lot of fuss because I see they need being done. I'm extremely honest and 87.2% reliable, I feel :-) I can cook too