When i first started on PC, for a looooong time, i felt like i was back on the catholic school playground for the first and second graders - it was the only one with sand and swings and slides. After going home for lunch, i would return and stand by the side of the swings, wishing someone would get off and let me on. I remember one of the school mothers encouraging me to ask someone if i could take a turn. I think i did that one time, but never again. The internet is exactly like that playground. No one is in charge. You just step in. Its horrible but its fun.