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Originally Posted by MRT6211
She hasn’t written back or called all day. I guess I was successful in pushing her away finally. I sent an email at 1 to both T and exT apologizing for last night’s drunken rambles. I hate myself. Why would she tell me to let her know how the week goes if she’s just going to ghost me? Doesn’t she realize this is making everything worse?
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If I understand correctly, it hasn't even been 24 hours since your email. In my world, that's not "ghosting." That's I have a lot on my plate and maybe the multiple emails make it difficult to know how to respond, so I'm waiting until I have a few minutes free to call or write a thoughtful response.
I doubt your over interpretation "pushing her away" is accurate and your expectation that she will drop everything to respond to you immediately and that she should "know" anything, are pretty good distortions of what I'd consider normal email response times. I respond to very few people within 24 hours and very few people respond to me within 24 hours and yes, I'm a busy professional as are most of the people I communicate with.