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Originally Posted by Dnester
Yes thats the word I was looking for, invalidated. Although I was trying to make it clear that I didnt know if it was that bad. When she suggested the way I sat made it less intrusive I felt really invalidated be6cause I cant understand why that would matter. Like I was asking for it or something.
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So, when she said that the way you sat made it less intrusive, did it feel to you that she was implying that you can be in control of your father's behavior and that the way you sit would make a difference and that if you sat in a certain way that would deter your father from touching you inappropriately? In a sense, did it feel like she was suggesting that you are in control of the situation?