I think that when we are looking at the emotions we experience in therapy, we need to remember that when we are talking to our therapists, they are humans too, and deserve respect. I have been very, very upset with my therapist many times. It's part of the therapeutic process. It's gonna happen. They know it and we know it. However, I don't think that being rude, insulting, or arrogant is ever permissible. Before you hit "send" on that email, ask yourself if there is a better way to state what you are feeling. For me, I have started journalling, and it lets me get all my emotions out in whatever way I see fit, and then I can sort out the facts and state the facts to my therapist. Facts can contain feelings.. ."I am angry with you because you made me feel like this" "I am feeling hurt by your comment that..." etc.

As someone who is in school to be a psychologist, please, just please, don't be rude or insulting. They don't deserve it and most won't put up with it.