I was once told that by a hospital psychiatrist. Only he didn't use the word "all".

Actually, what he said (and I think I remember it pretty accurately) was "I don't know how you got into this situation, but one thing I do know: it was your own fault". This was at a time when I felt about as badly about myself as was possible.

Nice to hear that from a psychiatrist.

I guess it relieves the discomfort of the person who tells you that.