Thank You Bird Dancer, Miquel's Mom, and Nola - all of you give great advice. He does take meds for OCD though right now I am not sure what it is called. We just went to see his psychiatrist the other day but, this was before this exampled happened. I think I should make sure I spend some time learning more about this. I deal with DID but he does not know about that. I have thought it was too much for him to deal with. Every time I take one of those online tests about bipolar I always pass it with flying colors that I have it also. I guess I need to talk with my doctor about it. I know I am not OCD though and all of you seem pretty sure this was an OCD issue and not bipolar. I need to read up on this stuff more. I have studied it in the past but, it is totally different when it is part of your own relationship. Thanks for the advice. I really do appreciate it.