Great advice given.

Having a T ( therapist) is a good idea for you both but separate T’s ..,

You should be able to be 100% honest in Therapy and you won’t if you know it could be available to your spouse to know every detail.

Regardless of being in a loving relationship it doesn’t mean people need to be 100% transparent. We all have things that belong mentally just to ourself.

And a having a different T for couples counseling would be helpful.

I also agree the parking was a OCD issue.

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