"There once was a boy who wanted to fly,
As once there was a butterfly who wanted to walk among men.
Each troubled by their dreams, they did what boys and butterflies do.

Realites uncertain, natures drives the same, as the Acts proceeded,
Each wished of the others place.

The curtain drew as boy became man,
And the butterfly flew away."

Our illusions sometimes Kimmy don't serve us well. We wish like children, when we should be seeing as people. What hurt he is doing you is wrong, but if you really look, this should be of no big surprise. We don't hurt the ones we love even if our circumstances must change.

From what I have read by you, you are a butterfly, one yes who hurts, but one with wings...

Open them to the wind...this too shall pass...

Lenny