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Originally Posted by eskielover
I had a dad who had aspergers long before the dx ever existed & martied a guy I lived with who also had undisgnosed aspergers....long before dx was ever known about in the US. I know exactly the problems it creates though each person is totally different in how it manifests itself in a relationship. I also know that the more problens that one has themselves the less able they are to be the kind of support needed.
I can also tell you that after 54 years of living around that.....I finally found peace in my life when I finally left.
So you want to continue your life of feeling abused by those around you? What possible reason could you have to knowingly make that choice. You love feeling abused?
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How about I believe it is possible to be in a relationship with a person with aspergers and be ok? Initially I left the person because I couldn’t handle it but I took some time off and realized how much I loved him. I know that people with aspergers can be abusive. I also know people with ptsd can be abusive. You found your peace in separation. I found no peace in separation. I know there are whole websites dedicated to partners of aspergers. We can’t help who we love, we love who we love. Is it wrong of me to love someone with aspergers?