Hi Turtle

NPD, yes, while I do not think that my wife's dreams are only too "pretty".

I think she cannot perceive parts of the reality, especially cause-effect-chains and thus she does "not feel guilty" for her actions and words.
I have read a subtitle of a book "imagine you can do what you want and say what you want and not feel guilty"... If you cannot perceive the consequence of your action as consequence of your action, you cannot feel responsible and not guilty.

Actually, I am looking for real people with experience with that to read my texts and if they feel they could help, join the discussion or contact me. I cannot use so much time reading that amount of posts in this forum, unfortunately...

Best wishes
David