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It's not about meeting new people to fill needs, I am fine with meeting someone if it happens, it's about catching up with someone who meant a lot to you, that's something people do often. I even have done it with teachers in my past. There is nothing wrong with saying "Hey, how you been? Hope life is going well for you, if you wanna catch up, I'm open to that" and that's all this is, beyond that, if it was meant for anything more, it would be, if no, thats fine too. Again it's all on me to reach out AND I'm well aware feelings change in time, I even told him we both may not care then....

I have 0 desire to ever go through the mess of therapy again, thanks but no thanks