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Originally Posted by leomama
[emoji50] [emoji19] you think I’m living in a fantasy? I don’t think he and I are in committed relationship today, quite the opposite. Instead of telling me I’m crazy and I need help why not tell me it sounds like you really love this man and I hope things work out. That’s what I would tell a friend. I would tell them that sounds really rough, I’m sorry they are suffering and I hope things work out, not tell them to go to therapy because they are deluded.
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I dint think you are crazy at all. Many people get into messy, ugly and bad situations. Doesn’t make them crazy.
But no I dont hope that things work out with this man as you loving him isn’t enough. He isn’t a good partner. There is a very unhealthy pattern going on and I don’t wish on anyone to live like this. I do not believe good friend would advice you to continue pursuing unsuitable partners. I hope you wouldn’t tell your good friends to chase men who ditched them and weren’t nice to them.
Yes I believe in good therapy helping to break unhealthy relationship patterns. Therapy isn’t for crazy people-“crazy “it’s not even a proper term. Therapy could be helpful for anyone