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Originally Posted by divine1966
I dint think you are crazy at all. Many people get into messy, ugly and bad situations. Doesn’t make them crazy.
But no I dont hope that things work out with this man as you loving him isn’t enough. He isn’t a good partner. There is a very unhealthy pattern going on and I don’t wish on anyone to live like this. I do not believe good friend would advice you to continue pursuing unsuitable partners. I hope you wouldn’t tell your good friends to chase men who ditched them and weren’t nice to them.
Yes I believe in good therapy helping to break unhealthy relationship patterns. Therapy isn’t for crazy people-“crazy “it’s not even a proper term. Therapy could be helpful for anyone
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You’re speaking in the plural as if this is a pattern with me. Under ordinary circumstances I would not pursue a man, it goes against my own personal code . I’m not chasing a man who ditched me and is not nice to me. I’m trying to get through to a man who has aspergers and is not talking to anybody that knows me. Not only has he cut me off, but he’s not talking to anybody that I know of right now.
You speak to me as if I’ve never had therapy. I have had years and years of therapy, both individual and group.
The unhealthy relationship pattern is the man I love has aspergers and I don’t know how to relate to him. He said he broke up with me in November of 2016 yet asked me out for my birthday in June of 2018. I did not accept his invitation at the time and I deeply regret it. He didn’t give up on me. I’m not going to give up on him.