I know this may seem quite a silly thing to be anxious about, but I really want to give my T a Christmas card in our last session before the holidays. Do you think this would be appropriate? I would never buy him a gift out of fear of him turning it down, but I go back and forth between thinking a card is ok and thinking that it's somehow a violation of boundaries. I know I'm probably overthinking this, but I would probably melt into a mortified puddle on the floor if he were to decline it.

What do you guys think about this?

(I know this sort of thing has been posted about recently--sorry to bring it up again).