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Buffy01 · Dec 15, 2018, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by missunderstood93

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I am soo confused, the other day I went on my laptop and tried to login to my outlook account but my boyfriend of 6 months left his email signed on. When I glanced at his emails I noticed he has been responding to Craigslist adds. I noticed the dates of the when the email where sent and it was at the first 2 months of our relationship. Then I noticed one that was just a few weeks ago.

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The titles of the emails where disturbing to me "hung-28yr-male-MFT", I clicked on one email and noticed there was numerous messages between him and another man. My boyfriend had sent explicit photos of him self to a guy who responded to his Craigslist post.

As I was skimming through the emails I noticed he had met up with this man and was paid to have sex with him. The man also had sent him a message saying "it was cool meeting you last weekend let me know if you're down to meet up again sometime and are you cool with $200 every time?".

I then noticed that there we other messages more recently, my boyfriend gave the guy his new phone number which he got 2 months ago and was looking to meet up with him again.

I have not brought this up with him yet and I do not know how to bring this up, I am so confused and hurt. I really need some advice on what to do, I am not against peoples sexuality or want to make him feel embarrassed about his sexuality. But I do not want to be with someone who is cheating or thinking about cheating on me with anyone (man/woman/or another gender).

How do I bring this up and what should I do about this?

Have you thought about hiring a private investigator to find out whether or not he is cheating on you? Have you thought about borrowing someone else vehicle and following him to his meet up and see for yourself of he cheating on you?