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That's all true... but one thing I DO wanna work on is my insecurity and self worth stuff. I also know he wants to work on his issues. He is in regular therapy. Time could change us for the good in THOSE ways, who knows? As you said, one size doesn't fit all. So true.
Right now I think the hardest thing for me, is trying to get used to the changes in my routine. I know it will be hard for a while, like any grief, and two years is a short time but also a long time.... anything can happen. Heck, as unlikely as it is, I could even bump into him at some point somewhere.
Thanks for sharing your story too.