This quote isn’t from what HE said, it’s YOUR words. I don’t believe anyone asks you to quote him at all and no one judges you. You are suffering and everyone is trying to make you suffer less, not more. By pursuing this man, you are causing more suffering for yourself. You are asking what you should do. Then you get upset when you get advice to not pursue him. It’s unwise to beg a man come back after he ended a relationship as it clearly causes you much pain. You are free of course to continue but all it’s going to cause is more pain