^ Maybe so but I honestly use that phrase all the time in every day convos. It isn't meant in any bad way... I just know based on things I've read, it would get people in an upset and trying to convince me to report etc. I don't read too much into phrases people use online. Everyone has their own way of talking and such. It doesn't always mean the same to everyone.

I'm sorry you had a painful end.... hopefully you can make peace with it or if you ever chose to, go back to them as a T.