leomama, I responded to you in your ptsd thread and I think what I said rings true for you.
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If your father abandoned you, that never meant you were unworthy, it meant that your father was lacking in the ability to function as a healthy parent. This often leaves someone wanting to be loved but also may pick the wrong partner that once again lacks in having healthy relationship skills.
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It think you struggle with abandonment issues leo and you are trying to overcome something you experienced with your father who also failed to connect and relate with you normally.
It's important you understand that some people genuinely cannot connect and have relationships in a normal way, NOT your fault and nothing you do can change that person either. You have a confused way of looking at things because you never really experienced "normal". This guy just isn't normal, not capable of connecting with you either do you understand leo?