Unfortunately it’s not going to work out. Is this the same man who proposed to you before he actually met you in real life and only after you got “engaged” and started planning to get married you discovered that he is actually married to someone else?

You havent been together for years, who knows what he was and is up to. He had personality disorder, then he had PTSD but then all of a sudden he has autism. Is he constantly self diagnosing or you are diagnosing him to explain his outrageous behaviors and lies?

He plays games. Sure he says he loves you in emails. His actions speak louder than words. Life is too short to sit around waiting for this guy. How many more years?