Thank you for the nice post. I was kind of kidding with the serial killer joke but here is the point, when someone, who you know, has dead parents, and siblings who aren't close... makes a joke like that.. You find an excuse to visit. You do not keep bringing it up every time you see the person but then, not come.

When someone you know is a loner makes an attempt to trust you with something that a is hard to admit... ie.. I purchased a home so people could come visit and no one does, and all my neighbors notice this and at this point I am so desperate to have someone arrive I almost would pay someone... then you come over.

I have pretty much decided it is over. I will be making excuses for not doing things with her the next time she comes to my workplace. I am already scheduling things during lunch so I will have excuses not to go.

Thanks everyone for the support.