I have spent the last month trying to just get a grip and save my relationship with a woman that I see being the one I want to spend my life with. She has had her thyroid removed and takes a synthetic steroid. If she misses a few pills then she becomes a basket case.

She stuffs her problems and doesn't deal with them, blames herself and just says that my life. Recently she has shut down and avoids everyone close to her, her outlet is going out to drink and have a good time every-night.

Anyway this is the first time it has got to this point and it has triggered my anxiety and depression. I'm starting to feel better but I'm missing her, shes my friend. This whole thing has taken a tole on my emotions, self esteem, mental well being, and everything else in my life.

I'm at the point now that I wonder if I'm to relationship intense, I treat her like gold and as she puts it "Over the top" on the way I feel about her. She knows when I'm playing and when I'm serious, anyway everything is just confusing and overwhelming.