Well, most everybody has to find employment and deal with serious stuff, whatja expect!!! but most people also need some fun and enjoyable relationships in their lives. "dire" sounds melodramatic, like what you say about the world being terrible and no one cares. You say you only come up here for being supported when you feel horrible, but you can't be that selfish cos people seem to like you very much here .

I was enjoying chatting is all. Wasn't expecting anything from you, was just something simple. Now I feel shut up, but sympathetic, and well anyway - …. I'm totally irrelevant to such a "dire" situation. Smile. See I worked for long years in a dire situation, it was just in my view something I had to do to support myself financially. It felt horrible but feelings are a short-term criteria for actions with long-term consequences. I needed a home more than I needed comfortable feelings. But then, I'm atypical for western society.

Wish you well in whatever you choose to do!

See ya around one day!