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Originally Posted by DP_2017
LT
I get that, except, in my case, he literally DID share all kinds of personal stuff with me, AND my friend, who he also was chummy with. She even said "I know more about your therapist than I do the people I work with and I've worked here for 4 years"
The game we played on the final day, people would LOSE THEIR MINDS if they knew a therapist did that with a client, especially because it wasn't our first time playing it.
90% of the time we just talked about casual stuff or laughed and screwed around. It already felt like more of a friendship than anything. I even told him that....
For me. I feel like I lost a good friend, not "a therapist" and I out right told him, I've only ever seen you as (INSERT NAME) the man I've gotten to know, not as a therapist.
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The one thing here is you paid for his time. Imagine paying a friend to be friends?
Playing games that would make people on PC LOSE THEIR MINDS, and your T quitting the field and you not seeing him any more seem inextricably linked together.
I am sorry he didn't offer something of himself that was long-lasting and that he won't be there next week and the week after, until it was your choice to be done with therapy.