Okay, my gut feeling is - this is not a friendly way to behave and there is something out of whack in the friendship, if it's a friendship. Acquaintanceship maybe. But even an acquaintance might have thought about how you were going to pick up your car outside her house.

My experience is that some people don't give much, and some people don't give much at certain times in their lives when they are preoccupied with other stuff. Confronting them doesn't help - just my experience.

If you like her company for other reasons, fine. Just be honest with yourself that she isn't giving much: have a chat with yourself inside about where you want to set your boundaries and act on that .