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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
It certainly is impossible if the client is unwilling to even try. While it may be considered supportive to encourage someone to stay entrenched exactly where they are, I don't find it helpful for others to collude in my avoidance of change.
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I'm sorry but you clearly don't understand the dynamic. Don't you see the OP trying tremendously? I do. To me what you say sounds as invalidating as saying to a person crippled with depression that he does not try enough to think positively.
And who has encouraged anyone to stay exactly where they are?