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Originally Posted by hvert
That's really too bad. I would be upset and would question the motives for changing to a four day visit. Are they asserting dominance or attempting to reconcile? What does your other sister think?
I would book a hotel room if you haven't already - that is my number one strategy for making family visits more enjoyable.
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I agree. Book a hotel. That's a great idea.
A healthy person would use the Holiday as an opportunity to reconnect/ reconcile. An unhealthy person would use it as an excuse for "hoovering" you back in.
I don't know what the dynamic is in your situation. Who knows, she may really be sincere. Just take it slow, one step at a time.