It's admirable you want to do your best for your users, hairyone. Personally I think that, no matter what you decide, you don't really have any responsability towards them. After all, they're the ones who came there, and the only thing you did is set up a forum from them. You can suggest them to get help, if you want, but the final decision is up to them. The decision of whether to shut down that forum or not is up to you. Let us know how it goes! Sending many hugs