Hi Blogwriter

Thank you for the link, I will read later today.
I agree with what you write. Lot of times my wife pretended to know my thoughts and to act upon what "I want" without even bothering to ask me what I really want or think.

"I had to do that because you wanted tome to do so". "I never wanted that, why do you not ask what I want?" - and then the fight starts with lies of the past x years being renewed to not allow for any discussion...

Best wishes
David