Personally, I think it is supportive to tell someone what you think. I do not believe in colluding and/or pretending that unreasonable behavior is anything but. If you don't want people to say something you disagree with, perhaps you might say so at the top of your thread. Or feel free to put me on ignore, which as you prolly know, prevents me from responding to your threads.

I think to say "they simply removed four or five organs and a few lymph nodes" is a serious minimization of her treatment and its likely effect on her. This is major surgery, probably radical surgery. To me your distorted perspective suggests having any reasonable discussion with you is fruitless, and I find people shouting at me in caps annoying as **** and I'm bowing out of this thread.