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Originally Posted by Waterloo12345
We talked about a plant that I could nuture over the break. She won't give me one of her own but wanted me to bring one in to a session so it becomes ours and the therapy spaces and then I take that away to have over the break.
I got mad that she would not give me one of hers, yes v v mature, and was just generally mad at her as above, so am currently ignoring it and cutting off my nose to spite my face.
Crikey writing that out makes clear how silly I am being.
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That sounds so sweet!
Sorry she wouldn't give you one of her plants. But for transitional objects, it's not about the object itself or where it came from or what it looks like; instead, it's about how a T relates to it, interacts with it and you, that makes the concept 'work'. So I hope you try it.