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Originally Posted by Jersey 3
He’s throwing in some DBT. (Which for the record-I am not a fan of) but in DBT-a feeling is just a feeling and a thought is just a thought. Our feelings are our own and nobody can make us feel a certain way. We have control over our feelings. We choose to feel what we feel. Ex Mc is using that method in his reply. I’m sorry you are hurt which basically means you are choosing to feel hurt and that’s not his issue. Pretty much is what his response says.
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Yes, exactly. He's putting it more on me as opposed to taking responsibility for it. I know maybe he's possibly worried that I'd file a complaint or possibly sue him, though when I mentioned that to T, he said ex-MC knew me well enough to think I wouldn't do that. But I hate that maybe it comes down more to cover your ***** as opposed to taking responsibility and making things right. He meant so much to me, this stuff means a lot more coming from him. I just don't know how to interpret the relationship anymore...