My T and I had a few legit arguments, he got pissy with me and I argued back. In a way it was good for me, because I was learning to be assertive...

However.... it was never about something I wanted to do, he supported stuff, even if he didn't want to. Probably because I told him early on, I make my own choices, and I don't want his or anyone else's advice on decisions.....

Had it gone where he had though, I don't think it would bother me. It's one person's view. At the end of the day, you do what's right for you. You are the one living your life.