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Default Dec 20, 2018 at 04:52 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
Frankly, I don't understand why those who created the website allowed people to post comments under specific cases.

On my website I don't have a comment section under people's personal stories. I only allow comments under the articles. The last thing the traumatized people need is to read everyone's input on their stories. While there would certainly be those who'd understand, support and validate, there would also be more than enough hurtful and judgmental commentary to traumatize the person, who's already been through a lot. We don't live in a highly conscious world where people are willing to look at the reality and to honestly examine it.

I am at the point where I finally stopped looking for validation and support from others. I know what happened to me. I know who was responsible for what. What I know is what I need to know. Everyone else's opinion is inconsequential to me.
I'm also past the point of seeking validation. I'm pretty jaded

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