About the saga with nosy neighbors and calling the police. I had literally asked myself how long it would take before M would be banging on my door after meeting my neighbors at the mail box. The only reason I opened the door was that she would go away and not call the police out of her 'concern' for me.

Blueberrybook, thanks for your response. I'm literally the last person who would call the police or do anything to bring their attention to me. If I were to contact them they would be at my door, breaking it down again if I don't open. They literally busted my door last year because I wouldn't open it because i was afraid of them.