I think it has been for quite awhile. I think the fight today was the final straw. He says I waste my time on these nanny jobs. Does he have any idea how hard it is caring for other people’s kids? He says I don’t contribute. That’s not true-I put the same amount towards the bills that he does. He says I don’t love him. Again not true-I would waste 19 years of my life on someone I don’t love. It was a really big blow up.