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Originally Posted by Sisabel
Welcome to PC. I’m sorry you’re facing such a difficult challenge right now. I wonder about that bipolar diagnosis your husband was given by a therapist and I would be more concerned by that than whether he is gay or not, which many others have already addressed. Are you financially able to move out soon and are your kids old enough that they can be on their own soon? Is it possible to start making plans for your own future? It does not sound like your husband wants to change his behavior.
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I haven’t brought up that diagnosis again. Simply put it would just make him angry at me.
He also does not do any counseling at all on his own and has not since our marriage intensive where he was with the male counselor, and well, honestly they seemed to chat about everything but the issues.
I am not financially able, and my youngest is still ten years away. Unfortunately I don’t trust my husband not to try and take my children and when I was working outside the house he was very verbal in telling me that I’m not there for our children anymore. He’s in a place now with work, that he has a lot more flexibility. I was working from home but was recently let go, my own fault, and I’m sure he will attempt to use it against me.
Now I have no income of my own.