I haven’t brought up that diagnosis again. Simply put it would just make him angry at me.

He also does not do any counseling at all on his own and has not since our marriage intensive where he was with the male counselor, and well, honestly they seemed to chat about everything but the issues.


I am not financially able, and my youngest is still ten years away. Unfortunately I don’t trust my husband not to try and take my children and when I was working outside the house he was very verbal in telling me that I’m not there for our children anymore. He’s in a place now with work, that he has a lot more flexibility. I was working from home but was recently let go, my own fault, and I’m sure he will attempt to use it against me.

Now I have no income of my own.