Agree totally. I never had the words or the understanding of all the emotions I was feeling other than anger toward him. Took me years if good therapy to even define the feelings I was experiencing. None for me were grief because it was such a relief to be away from him but I understand how for others grief would be a big part of it. I already knew after 33 years of dealing with him that the marriage was NEVER going to be good & had written that off when I left.

Every divorce is so different. Good you have a T who is helping you to process it all