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Originally Posted by golden_eve
To be fair, I think both people have the right to the lifestyle they want, including him. He's not over drinking or having problems with drinking. If there were a problem, then I'd say it would be time to say something. But this has to do with two different lifestyles. She cannot impose her lifestyle on him.
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I agree they both have rights to pursue whatever life styles. But it doesn’t mean she needs to stick around if it bothers her.
It’s a problem for her.
Also who is to say that one or two drinks a day isn’t a big deal. Many professionals will tell you that it is.
But what does it matter if some people think it’s ok? She doesn’t. Personally I enjoy having clear mind at all times and don’t enjoy company of buzzed people. It doesn’t matter to me that others think it’s perfecty fine. Others are free to drink daily, but elsewhere. Not in my proximity
In general it’s unwise to get into relationship with people whose life style differs too much. No point in trying to change people. No point to put wuth nonsense either. Life is too short