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Originally Posted by growlycat
Good advice it’s just hard because they aren’t so awful that I want to cut them out of my life but just difficult enough to be grating
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I hear that. But I will say it was a wonderful day when I realized I could bow out of holidays even if I didn't cut my family of origin out of my life. I'm still in touch with them, but haven't done holidays with them in over 10 years. Mine are awful, but even so it's complicated and no contact isn't always necessary.