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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I can relate and not. I have to go to my sister's house tomorrow to be pitied because I am all alone. I would prefer to be home doing what I want to do but I have to get the presents ready and go.. I do it because I do need help at other times of the year and I do know that I have to put up with the one day pity just to maintain relationships.
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I saw them 2 times in the past year; both times just to "repay" them for the help they provided me.
I'm not going to ask them for help ever again. I am a grown man and can take care of my own issues. I'm not making the mistakes I used to make so I am not as dependent on other people. If I screw something up and need a loan, well I built my credit up well in the past year so I'll use my credit cards or get a small loan if I have to rather than ask them again.
So IDC I'm staying home. Not going out there to be lectured and be forced to hide who I am just to fit in with their little community. I shouldn't have to given what I've been through up until now.