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Old Dec 24, 2018, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
The reason I don't believe in it is because in my opinion, a client does not know the therapist as a real person. The person the therapist truly is can only be a stranger to the client. So to me, if one was to think they loved the the therapist they hired - it would be that they loved a fiction - the therapist persona played by that person hired for that appointment period of time.
I disagree. In some cases, they DO.... at least fairly well.... and you don't have to know someone completely to love them.

I mean, for instance, my best friend and I don't share anything emotional or deeply personal with each other, we only talk surface things but she says she loves me, am I to assume she is lying then?

you can also love strangers, just because you are a decent person and love other people. You can love a teacher for the impact they have had on your life. I don't think love should have limits, that's kind of my point in all this. Love is love... and the world needs more of it, not less and limited versions of it.
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