I'm so sorry, Alden It sounds like your therapist isn't understanding at all of your condition. Perhaps it's time to change therapist? Maybe that could help. Can you afford it? Does this happen with other people as well? Either way, I'd say just ignore this kind of people and cut them out of your life if possible. You don't need more toxicity in their life, and if they can't get past your disorder and see how wonderful you are, it's their loss. Obviosuly it's not your fault this is happening and it sounds like you're trying your best. Sending many hugs to you