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Originally Posted by elisewin
To be perfectly honest, this felt a bit hurtful. I can assure you the way I love people is not how you ended up hurt. I can assure you I don't abandon my loved ones. Also the definition of love is obviously very different to you and me. To me it is nothing so dramatic, I see it everywhere and I easily feel love for people. In the very moment I live, without guarantees what tomorrow brings. But that doesn't make me any less committed or loving towards the people close to me.
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And that's fine. No need to feel hurt
I'm allowed to share my views. I don't understand or think love should be conditional. For some it is. That is ok that people have different views.
I personally struggle accepting love from humans for this very reason. I asked my t to never say he loved me even if he felt it. I lose trust in someone when they say they love me. I suddenly feel it's conditional. It scares me.
You are allowed your views like I am mine. My point of this thread though is that people....therapists and clients should be allowed to love each other without being questioned or shamed