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Hi Saidso, warmup,
Thanks for recognizing my help with boundaries. I give a lot of thought to roles, boundaries, requests and responses. Sort of working out the details for myself and when someone is really going through something it helps accelerate my own development.
I've spent so much of my life carefully watching the behavior of those around and finding ways to stay in and stay with (if they tolerate that) without doing everything they do. I did drink some till mid 20s, but not much other drugs. Didn't much feel the point of it as I could tolerate a mildly dismal/boring current experience plus I didn't want to give money to the underworld that supplied it. This philosophy showed up again when I toughed out a hard period of depression 14 years ago.
I get you are very sensitivity to the 'vibes' of the locality where you are. Place matters.
If posting here makes sense as we're all here with aliases, please continue.
Hang on, hang in, through the rest of the holidays.
Revu2
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