Thanks for making me smile. I needed that. She never listens to anything I say. Whatever I can come up with, she makes it all about HER. I've told her that I buy my month's supply of cigs and that's all I have, that it's a pain to get hubby to go back to the store for me. It hits a brick wall.

If I wave as I go by, she'll shout "HEY!" again, not calling me by name. gggrrrrr I used to want to grab her and shake her til her teeth fell out, maybe slap her around a bit. That's what she used to understand... maybe still does. Not gonna let her put me in that possition of even FEELING like it. Her daughter does it often enough. I've tried to help her with that, too, but to no avail.