Going to be 39 next year and never imagined I’d be single at this point. 10 years ago my life was so good and didn’t have a problem finding a girlfriend. Now this will be my 7th New Years single and without anyone. I don’t even know how to approach a lady let alone dating. My thought have improved and I want to say that’s pathetic (old thought pattern). Now I don’t know how to label it. Bad hand in life, recovering from depression I don’t know. However it’s not the life I want to live. But I don’t know how to approach anymore.